Give me the definition of the word 'GIVE' please. I looked up dictionary.com and I was given a list. The top of the list states,
to present voluntarily and without expecting compensation; bestow:If I was given something. It means that the 'thing' is mine right? Whatever I wish to do with it is my right.
Imagine this, you give a kid a candy and in return takes it back and show the kid how it's to be eaten by popping it into your mouth. DUH!
So when someone gives me something and in returns decides what I should do with it. That leaves me wide-eyed.
If you're gonna give it to me yet decide for me how I'm to use it. Please take it back. Cause it makes me wonder why in the first place you're giving it to me.